How to Get Back My Ex Girlfriend Who Was a Victim of Domestic Violence

Dear Diary, I want to get back my ex girlfriend, but I don’t know how to start. I had been so abusive with her, but now I have realized my faults and I really want to get back my ex girlfriend. Can you tell me how to start picking up the pieces and how do I change my violent side, or am I simply helpless? – Violent No More.

The most important part of the cited sample above is that the person who was abusive with his girlfriend now feels very sorry for what he has done. In this case, sorry is not enough to succeed in getting back with an ex. No matter how much a woman loved you, they will think lots of times before getting back to the relationship where they were often hurt. You may say all things like you did not intend the violence to get out of hand or you won’t do it again. Actually, whatever you say, they will still fear that you have done it once so what is their assurance that you won’t resort to such violence ever again.

I am willing to change and do everything I can in order to get back my ex girlfriend.

Can you just imagine how many men have said such promise to the women whom they want to get back with and fail in the end? If you are serious about your goal and you are really willing to do everything to attain it, you must start by rebuilding the trust that your ex girlfriend had once given you.

Let your ex girlfriend know about your intentions, so that they can process everything and think about whether to give you a chance or not. From this point on, every promise that you tell them must be met.

If you have to go through counseling to avoid getting into dilemmas that you had before, do it together. This way, you will be more open about your emotions and everything else that is bugging both of you when it comes to the relationship. By making trust the foundation of your renewed relationship, it will be easier for you to stop writing on your diary about – how to get back my ex girlfriend.